The Dangers of Breaking Commitments
Do you have a problem keeping your commitments?
Do you give your word, then go back on it again and again?
If so, you are damaging more than just the relationships you have with your business partners, colleagues, friends and family.
You are also damaging the relationship you have with your own self. Read more to learn how:
We all know that going back on your word not only causes others to mistrust you and to believe they cant count on your word, but what many people don’t realize is that you may also damage your own personal relationship with yourself.
After going back on your word over and over again, not only do others doubt you, but you begin to doubt your own self.
You may have also discovered that you find it difficult to even commit to the smallest event.
You may have seen that you have some uneasy feeling when it comes to making a commitment to a relationship, a business event, a party, or something else that may be beneficial and enjoyable to you.
These feelings and thoughts can cause you to become tired, confused or defeated. Then, these feeling create another cycle of you breaking commitments. Does this sound like you or someone else that you know?
After breaking commitments over and over again, you even begin to not trust yourself. This is dangerous because if you feel you cant trust in yourself, its very hard for others to trust you and for you to trust others.
It is most important that you build this trust back into your own mind. When we lack trust in our own self it affects every area of our lives. We tend to isolate ourselves or hid our true feeling and thoughts. This is damaging to our relationships, career and personal life, even our own health.
So, if breaking commitments is damaging to our personal and business relationships, as well as our own being, why do we and some people do it all the time? Come back tomorrow to learn why.
Joanne Cipressi, CHt, CNLP
Personal Transformation Coach
Joanne Cipressi is a personal transformation coach that helps people truly enjoy their lives. She believes life is beautiful and amazing and thrills at encouraging others to feel the same. She is an expert in lovingly re-programming mind and emotion patterns for self-esteem, healthy relationships, career success, and vibrant health. She is located in Bucks County and coaches one-on-one in the entire Philadelphia area, as well as nationally via Skype and Phone. She travels as well. She offers hourly one-on-one sessions, 4 and 8 hour transformational sessions, weekend immersions sessions for dramatic life changes, as well as others programs. Contact her at 267-266-6480 to feel great about your life.